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Relationship Red Flags

  • By DomesticShelters.org
  • Jan 18, 2017
Relationship Red Flags
  • Lack of compromise.
  • Subtle control, such as strongly encouraging you to dress a certain way.
  • Guilt tripping.
  • Coercive behavior, or behavior that pressures you into things.
  • Having a typically confrontational attitude.
  • Unreasonable statements about how much they deserve, or what they deserve.
  • Feeling as though the whole world is against them, all the time.
  • Denying their behavior.
  • Lack of trust in you.
  • Lack of respect for your feelings.
  • Sarcastic comments downplayed as jokes.
  • Extreme jealousy.
  • The silent treatment.
  • Building you up, then breaking you down and repeating this cycle.
  • Lying.
  • Statements like, “If you loved me, you would x, y, z.”
  • Gaslighting.
  • Abusive actions in prior relationships.
  • Cruelty toward others.
  • Interrogations about your day and whereabouts.
  • Sabotaging your friendships (isolation).
  • Breaking boundaries.
  • Not taking responsibility for their actions.
  • Showing disrespect toward former partners.
  • Constant checking in, needing to know where you are at all times.